Showing posts with label Heart Warrior. Show all posts
Showing posts with label Heart Warrior. Show all posts

Thursday, February 1, 2018

Heart of a Fighter

February is American Heart Month and for most of us this brings to mind adults with cardiovascular disease, but there is another group that is often completely overlooked.

They are the children whose lives have been shattered by congenital heart disease. They cannot run and play like other kids. Their parents live in constant fear of them having cardiac arrest, stroke or worse. They have experienced open heart surgeries, heart catheters, MRIs, X-Rays, echocardiograms, transplants, physical therapy, and more IVs and blood draws than they can count. They are children whose childhood has been stolen and have been made wise well beyond their years.

"Congenital Heart Defect" -- three words that I had probably heard in passing but never paid much attention to until March 13, 2009. That morning I was headed to the hospital for a scheduled C-Section and everything went smoothly until my son was born. He immediately had problems breathing and was placed on oxygen and transferred to St. John's in Joplin. I was able to briefly touch his hand before he left and then did not see him again for two days. My plans of snuggling and enjoying the first hours of my baby's life flew out the window.

Then we were told something that I can still hear as clearly as the day it was said: "We think there's something wrong with his heart."

At St. John's he was diagnosed with a congenital heart defect called transposition of the great arteries and he was transferred by jet to Children's Mercy Hospital in Kansas City. We had chosen the name Kaden Shiloh for him, Kaden means "fighter" and Shiloh means "place of peace." The names and their meanings became even more special to us when we realized what he was facing.


Transposition of the great arteries occurs during early pregnancy, around eight weeks, while the heart is forming. The aorta and pulmonary artery are switched. Instead of the blood circulating and mixing like it is supposed to, the blood coming from the body to the heart never receives oxygen and the oxygen rich blood coming from the lungs never goes out to the body.

Kaden was very lucky in that he had an additional defect that created a hole between the chambers in his heart and allowed for some mixing of blood. When he was less than 24 hours old he had a balloon atrial septostomy which created a larger hole in his heart and allowed us some more time before he had to have surgery.

My husband Steve followed Kaden to Joplin and then to Kansas City, while I stayed behind to recover. Two days later I arrived in Kansas City and was able to hold my baby for the first time. He looked so perfect. If it wasn't for the wires and IV line, I wouldn't have been able to tell there was anything wrong with him. We were able to spend the next week and half rocking and holding him as much as we wanted. We spent a lot of time talking to doctors and nurses and searching the Internet for information. The surgery that Kaden needed was called an arterial switch and had a 96 percent success rate.

When he was 12 days old, we kissed our son goodbye and watched as he was wheeled to the operating room. His surgery was supposed to take 4-6 hours and we could do nothing but wait. After four hours, a nurse came out to tell us that Kaden's heart condition was more complicated than they had realized and that the surgeon didn't think he was going to be able to repair his heart. She told us that Kaden's heart would not be able to sustain life.

The next several hours were a blur while we waited for more news. Finally, the nurse came back to tell us that the surgeon had been able to do "something" and she wasn't even sure what it was, but that he thought he had been able to fix Kaden's heart. After an 11-hour surgery Kaden's heart was again beating on its own and he was taken to the Pediatric Intensive Care Unit. We later learned that Kaden's surgeon, Dr. James O'Brien, never once left the operating room during those 11 hours and we are so thankful that he wasn't willing to give up on our son.

Kaden recovers from the lifesaving surgery. Kaden means "fighter."
Later that night as we sat in Kaden's room his heart stopped beating. The doctor rushed in and began performing CPR and a chaplain came to pray for Kaden. After several minutes Kaden's heart was again beating on its own and we knew we had witnessed Kaden's second miracle of the day.

The next morning Kaden began improving and every day after that he was a little better until two weeks later when we were able to take him home.



Today, Kaden amazes us at how "normal" he is. He still has pulmonary stenosis and an enlarged aortic root which his cardiologist continues to monitor. Otherwise, he is a very healthy and happy little boy.

He loves running and playing with balls and we hope that he will be able to play sports someday. He has a long white scar running down his chest and every time we see it we are reminded of what a miracle he is.


According to the CDC, Congenital Heart Defects are the most common types of birth defects affecting nearly 40,000 infants each year in the United States. Some CHDs are preventable but most are not. Many of these children never get a chance to live a normal life, if they get to live at all.

The biggest way we can help these children is by raising awareness so that additional funding can be obtained.


New research needs to be done to find ways to help those affected by CHD's and maybe someday even find a way to prevent them.

-Rachel       

Sunday, July 2, 2017

Long Overdue Update on Kaden Shiloh

Kaden is 8 years old now! He will be starting 3rd grade in the fall. He loves soccer, video games, Pikachu, and baseball. For anyone not aware, Kaden was born with a Congenital Heart Defect called Transposition of the Great Arteries and had open heart surgery when he was 12 days old. The oldest dated blogs under this section give details about his surgery and everything he went through after he was born. 
He has a checkup with his cardiologist every 6 months to a year and he will continue that for the rest of his life. So far, he has been doing really well and has no restrictions from his cardiologist for now. He has pulmonary stenosis(narrowed pulmonary artery) and a slightly enlarged aortic root that his cardiologist is watching. 

 
Kaden having an echocardiogram a couple of years ago.

 These two pictures were taken 8 years and two months apart. He has certainly come a long way from that tiny baby in the NICU!


Monday, October 4, 2010

Through the eyes of a child....

Kaden enjoying the outdoors on the homestead. He loves the outdoors and loves for someone to take him outside. Every time his front door is opened he makes a bee line for it hoping to get taken outside.







Aah, life out in the country on a beautiful fall day. Does it get any better than this? Slow down and enjoy the simple things in life like the excitement of a young child at just being outdoors exploring all the wonders around them! There's lots we can learn from the children!

Friday, May 7, 2010

Don't mess with a boy and his Coke!





The can was actually empty but he was gonna suck every last drop out. And don't anyone think about taking it away from him either!

Saturday, April 3, 2010

Kaden is all smiles!

Look at that little man smile! He is loving the outdoors and cries when he sees someone heading outside and not taking him with them. Does my heart good to see him healthy and smiling. We have a lot of things to be thankful for and this little fella is one of them!


Doing his daddy proud. Look at Kaden in that hat! Makes me want to reach through the computer and kiss him!!

Friday, March 26, 2010

Baby Kaden has been dismissed from the hospital!

We are celebrating today cause the cardiologist seen the report from the echo cardiogram and did not see any change from the last one he looked at and has dismissed him from the hospital. Isn't God good?
Here he's celebrating by eating some sherbert with Poppy.
Foot still looks painful where the IV was jerked out.
He truly is a gift from God.

Thursday, March 25, 2010

The best son in law in the world

Baby Kaden had his echo cardiogram this afternoon but we haven't heard the results back yet. Think he will remain in the hospital until Sunday or Monday. He does seem to be feeling better although his cough still sounds wicked. Keep him in your prayers please.

Isn't this pic more precious than words??

Tuesday, March 23, 2010

Baby Kaden is getting his first ambulance ride...make that second...well anyway...

Rachel woke me up early this morning and Kaden's little heart was about to beat out of his chest and his breathing was rapid. He had been to see the Dr. yesterday but he was pitching such a fit that the Dr. could not hear his lungs etc. And he seemed to be doing fine yesterday , then in the evening more he started coughing. Then this morning.

She took him to the Emergency Room where they felt he needed admitted to a hospital. Since he had his open heart surgery in KC at Children's Mercy, Rachel wanted him admitted there. In the meantime they are taking blood and had him hooked up to oxygen. And Nana was singing the Barney song to him to make it all better.
They strapped his car seat on the gurney and off they went. Looks like he slept the biggest part of the trip. Notice he has his little brown teddy bear that Children's Mercy gave him when he was born.

So he was loaded up into the ambulance and his mom rode with him in it and his dad followed behind.
Hopefully he will be back home in a few days. I talked to his mom on the phone and you could hear him coughing in the background. Sounded terrible.


Keep him in your prayers please. And his momma who has had problems with her gall bladder but is pregnant so cannot have surgery.
The fact he is drinking from his bottle means he is getting some liquid. Hate it when they tape things to his face cause you know that will hurt when they take it off. Bless his heart. Hope once again God wipes away his little tears and erases all this from his memory!!

Saturday, March 13, 2010

Kaden Shiloh turns One today!!!

Our sweet little miracle baby turns one year old today! He is such a joy to all of us! And I am especially proud cause he can say "na na" although dada and mom are his other favorite words. Oh yeah, and "ba ba".


He loves to climb and doesn't seem to sit still very much. He loves music and "dances" to his daddy's rockin music.

Happy Birthday Kaden, our special little one! May God's hand be upon you all your life!

Saturday, February 27, 2010

The little munchkin ate the wrestling tickets!

Steve and Rachel and Kaden and Koda and myself went to watch two of my granddaughters play basketball this afternoon. Mark was still at school. On our way home we stopped and picked up some pizza at our favorite pizza place and also picked up some wrestling tickets --which seems to be one of Steve's favorite sports. Even though I keep telling him it is so fake. But anyway, he wanted to take his boys to watch wrestling cause it was coming to town near us. He got tickets front row and center for $15.00 each.

After we got home and had eaten our pizza we started playing a card game and the kids were playing in their room and I noticed Kaden wasn't under our feet or under the table anymore. I looked up and noticed he was chewing on something. I went over and fished it out of his mouth and said "Oh my gosh, he's eating the wrestling tickets!" And sure enough he had little wet balls of wrestling tickets on the floor and a good sized wad of another in his mouth!

You should have seen the look on Steve's face when he realized it was his wrestling tickets the little munchkin was devouring. It was priceless! So we spread out what we could salvage of the tickets and placed them on the table to dry. I am sure if he goes back to where he bought them from and tell them his baby chewed them up that they will replace them. How could you not believe that story especially with the evidence or what's left of it , in hand.

Gave me my laugh for the day though! Guess it just goes to show you that one person's treasure is just anothers teething toy! I'm still laughing just thinking about it!


At this stage he'll eat anything. Notice how he's looking at Koda's pop. Better not lay it down within his reach is all I can say, huh Steve?




Can you believe someone this precious would eat his daddy's coveted wrestling tickets? He looks entirely innocent of the crime he is being accused of except we dug it out from between his clenched teeth! What can I say? Buy that boy something to chew on! Yeah, Nana knows it's not his fault cause he's too precious to do anything wrong!

Tuesday, October 27, 2009

Baby Kaden today...

It's been a while since I updated my blog with pictures of Kaden. He's gaining weight and doing great. He really, really, really likes being held. He just got over having this flu stuff. I keep reminding God grandchildren are an inheritance of the Lord. He got held a lot when he had the flu. I stayed at their house and slept with him in my arms.

He also thinks his brothers are pretty special. I love this picture.

He still loves the snuggle bear they always put on his head while in the hospital. They "bonded" I think while there.
And he loves the baby food his momma feeds him.


He's such a happy boy!! He's got a lot to smile about, don't you think?

Saturday, July 4, 2009

Baby Kaden celebrating his first 4th of July

How thankful we are to be celebrating this 4th of July with Baby Kaden. He gets to hear "He's so precious" about a hundred times a day. He'll grow up thinking his name is "precious." But that's O.K.


Looks like he is practicing boxing. Dad would like a little boxer.


See that scar? And look at those chubby little legs!!

Isn't he just "precious?" We love this little fella and I thank God everyday that he is alive and doing well. He's our little "miracle" and we don't forget it!!!